Music & Bonding: Infants and Toddlers
by • February 5, 2016 • Young Children • 0 Comments
Bonding with an infant and toddler can take place in multiple formats, from reading stories to play, but how can music be used to create a more intimate bond with your little one that will last for years to come? It has been said time and time again that ages 0 to 7 are crucial to development. Let’s take a closer look at why and how you can use music to connect with your infant/toddler. Chances are, you’re already using some of these techniques in your home!
Movement
Get moving! Did you know that by moving to music with your little one, you are producing “oxytocin,” which is the same hormone produced during nursing? Be open to the types of music you listen and move to (your preferred music is encouraged) as it will make the bonding experience more enjoyable. While classical music is awesome, the little ones love to groove too!
Intimacy
During bonding time, encourage musical play, from clapping hands and patting feet to instrumental play if and when possible. Below I’ve listed some singable books, nursery rhymes, and lap ride songs that you can incorporate into bonding time with your little one!
What I love about the singable books and stories is that while there are visuals, they are well known songs, and they are now commonly sung using American Sign Language.
When doing lap ride songs, these can be adapted to fit your surroundings. Try singing Five Little Mommies, or insert the name of your child, and I guarantee it will be a fun filled time.
Singable Books/Stories
Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star – The Itsy Bitsy Spider – I’m A Little Teapot – Mary Had A Little Lamb
Lap Ride Songs
Row, Row, Row Your Boat – The Wheels on the Bus – Five Little Monkeys
Below I’ve included a link back to a previous blog post that really hits on the importance and impact of the use of music in and outside of the home and how it creates lasting bonds during the infant and toddler ages.
